Foster care – fostering children as a foster carer / parent

Fostering – is becoming a foster carer / foster parent for you?

Fostering a child or fostering children (keeping siblings groups of brothers and sisters together) is open to more people than you would think.

You can become a foster carer or parent if you are single, married, in a civil partnership or in a long-term relationship.

Types of foster care

There are different types of foster care, depending on your circumstances.

Short-term fostering

Short-term fostering is about fostering children for a few days, weeks, months or sometimes even years. It could be an emergency placement for a child or young person in an emergency, or out of office hours usually for up to 72 hours.

Long-term fostering

Long-term fostering is about fostering children until they are at least 18 years old, where adoption is not possible or desirable for a particular child.

Respite fostering

Respite care is ideal for families, couples or single people who want to support fostering but may not be able to take it on full time. Respite is where you provide a short break for a child or a foster carer for a short amount of time. This could be for the day, overnight, for a weekend or in some cases longer.

Parent and child fostering

The parent and child fostering scheme is about supporting young parents and their small children whilst we complete an assessment on the parent's ability to care for their child.

They will live with you for 12 weeks (sometimes this can be longer) and you will be a key person in their lives to give them support, guidance, and practical and emotional support so they can build the confidence they need to help them continue to care for their child.

Intensive support fostering

This is about providing intensive support and care to children and young people who may display challenging behaviour or have complex needs. You may also provide a placement for young people who are in serious trouble with the police, and provide an alternative to being remanded in custody.

Intensive support respite

If you're interested in the intensive support fostering scheme but are unable to commit to this full time you could consider becoming an intensive support respite carer. This is about providing short breaks for children and intensive support foster carers for a day, overnight, a weekend or sometimes longer.

Supported Lodgings

The Supported Lodgings scheme is about providing accommodation and support to young people, aged 16 – 17 years, who are not ready to live independently. The purpose of the scheme is to provide a room to a young person and offer practical and emotional support to help prepare them for independence.

Family link scheme

This type of fostering offers short breaks to children with disabilities of all ages. This could be for a weekend, a day or a fortnight – or even a few hours on a regular basis. It could also involve shared care between the child’s parents and the short break carer.

Family and friends carers (connected person)

Fostering can be provided by family or friends who offer a home to children or young people who are already known to them.

For more information read our guides below:

A young girl held by her foster father

What is the role of a foster carer?

As foster carer, you'll typically be:

  • welcoming a young person to be part of your family
  • giving day to day care to meet their physical, intellectual, emotional and social needs
  • setting suitable boundaries and routines
  • helping with schoolwork; you’ll need to have a positive attitude to education to support them
  • keeping young people safe
  • working with other professionals
  • putting forward the views of children in your care; sometimes you may find that you disagree but it’s important you can share their feelings positively
  • involving parents, where it’s possible and safe
  • helping the young person move on, in a positive way, to their next home or setting
  • completing some logs and reports by familiarising yourself with the foster carers recording policy

We know that being a foster carer can sometimes be emotionally demanding, so it’s important that you are willing to work with us if you are finding something difficult. We’ll be here to support you every step of the way and have a full package of support for you.

Interested? Find out if you're eligible to foster

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Telephone: 0300 300 8181